1) Play Present: As motivated athletes we must "learn from the past" through reflection, game tape, and coaches talks. We must "plan for the future" through goal setting, workouts, practice and game plans. But perhaps more importantly than either of those, we must learn to PLAY PRESENT. Playing present means we leave our homework, relationship issues, jobs, teachers, and friends in their places for 60 min and engulf ourselves in the demands and joys of the game we are in. We get to practice and games early, lace up our shoes, and forget about everything else. It also means we let the mistakes and missed shots leave our minds (to be recalled and discussed later) and focus in on the play at hand. To maximize our potential and our enjoyment, we must have a singular, focused, and positive mind set of doing whatever is physically, mentally and emotionally possible to achieve the result we desire. When the game is done, the other parts of our lives will still be there, waiting. We can and should pick them back up, giving them the same focus we gave our game. We balance our lives, academics, relations by giving everything and everyone our best "present" selves, not by shuffling along through each aspect distracted by the others. So when we are in class, at home with family, or with our friends we give them our all… when we are on the court… we choose to excel in the moment by playing present.
2) Listen and Learn: The hallmark of nearly every "great" player, from any sport, is that they were always improving. No one "perfects" sports, so having a growth mindset is critical. We must not see ourselves as born "good" or "bad" at hoops, but rather as team members all at different places on the road to excellence. Our successful improvement is under our control, and we only become better versions of ourselves through the understanding of our strengths and weaknesses and a great deal of FOCUSED hard work and practice. Putting up poor form shots in the gym every lunch only makes us slightly better at shooting with poor form. Pro athletes pay personal and team coaches millions of dollars to help them find those parts of their game they need to focus on, so as new athletes we need to leave the egos at the door. Our school's coaches not only know way more than our athletes, they have a unique perspective from the sidelines, and are unpaid volunteers whose only desire is to see us succeed. Every minute of every practice and every game… we listen to our coaches critique with a smile and the understanding we are all trying to get better.
3) Team Before Self: Basketball is a team sport. Ergo, your personal success is completely dependent on the success of others and vice versa. You cannot be a success at hoops if you score a bunch of points while your team is losing. A team cannot be a success if its individual members are working independently on their personal goals. TEAMS require that each member adopts a role with responsibilities and works at their best do complete their part. The BEST TEAMS find a way to have each individual member's role maximize their best attributes in pursuit of team goals. These roles are NOT equal, they DO NOT all get the same recognition from fans and parents, they DO NOT even all feel the same to the players. Some players need to score, others rebound, others play defence, and still others to mostly cheer. Roles change throughout a game and even more so through a season depending on the flow of competition, needs of the team and player improvement. Whatever your role is… own it. Do your very best to make the team success your primary goal, no matter which role you find yourself in.
4) Love to Compete: There are many, many definitions of success in the world. John Wooden is the winningest coach in NCAA Basketball history and as a poet/philosopher he has one of the better ones. "Success is peace of mind, which is a direct result of self satisfaction, in knowing you did your best to become the best you are capable of becoming." Athletes who focus on the result of winning become desperate during games, a trait that leads to mistakes, choking, and suffocating self doubt after losses. Those that focus on the process required to win, and the love of competition, find themselves less affected by the big moments or the fear of failure. They understand there is always a loser, and that we miss 100% of the shots we don't take. They are proud and confident in the hard work they have put in as preparation and are excited to test themselves against the best they can find. They focus on having done their very best for their team, win or lose, and they know they can work even harder to improve before the next test. So when we play, we play to win, we give 100% on every play, but we know that our "success" in NOT tied to the win… it is all about our own effort and our love of the chance to compete.
5) Respect the Game: Its' just a game… it is hugely important to us in the moment, and we have given our all to try to win the game… but it is still a game. We don't put our desire to win a game above our respect for those that have given us the chance to compete. This includes the referees, the coaches, our team mates, and yes, even the opposing players. Thousands of people from school and athletic associations have come before us to make our "game" possible and we disrespect all of them when we talk back to officials, mock our opponents, and when we simply don't give our best. Being on a Sullivan Basketball team is huge privilege and should be treated as such. We are mindful of how lucky we are that others volunteer their time, so whether we scored 50 or 0 points, whether the opponent is much better or much worse than us, whether we got all of the calls or none of them, we are humble and respectful of the game.
6) Enjoy the Moment: Far too soon our season will be over and our team will disband, each player going to their own "place" in our school culture. The win/loss record will fade from memory, the trophies will gather dust and be put in boxes, the team shirts will get dirty and be thrown out. What will remain is the feeling we had when we were together. Some let the fleeting nature of these times create anxiety, a desire for everything to perfect, and in doing so usually fall short of their own expectations or even cause the failures themselves. We choose to take the game winning shot and let the cards fall where they may… and to enjoy the moment. Whatever happens we know we put the work in, that failure is temporary, and that we will never have another chance to appreciate being with each other, right here… right now. Don't forget to smile.